Everyone deserves to have a healthy and safe relationship, including YOU. And just because someone isn’t physically hurting you doesn’t mean they aren’t abusing you.
Remember, you are not alone.
- Nearly 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year.
- 1 in 3 adolescents in the U.S. experiences physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner.
- 1 in 10 high school students has been purposefully hit, slapped or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend.
If you’re unsure whether or not a situation or relationship is abusive, ask yourself…
Does your significant other:
- Insult or make fun of you?
- Think his or her feelings are more important than yours?
- Become easily jealous when you want to see your family or friends or are in certain social situations?
- Control what you wear and/or how you look?
- Text or call you repeatedly and get upset when you don’t answer?
- Try to get you drunk or high?
- Throw things at you or hit, kick, shove, strangle and/or grab you?
- Often make excuses for his or her behavior, especially when your significant other has treated you badly?
- Ever force you to have sex or perform any sexual acts when you don’t want to?
- Make you feel afraid to end the relationship because your significant other has threatened to hurt you, him/herself or a family member?
- Control or restrict your use of birth control or condoms?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, we encourage you to seek support and help about your relationship.
LifeWire has a full-time Youth Advocate who works directly with teens who have experienced dating violence. She also runs a weekly teen support group, VOICES.
- VOICES is LifeWire’s support group for teens 13 and older who have experienced abuse and/or violence and are interested in connecting with youth who share their experiences. VOICES is a safe space for youth to learn, grow and care for one another through activities such as games, sports, art projects, movie nights and pizza parties as well as engage in thoughtful small group discussion focused on healthy relationships and laughter.
Call our 24-Hour Helpline at 425-746-1940 for more information.
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