Mother with her arm around her teen daughterWhat Is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is the use of emotional, psychological, physical, technological, sexual, reproductive, and/or economic abuse by one person in a current or former intimate relationship in order to maintain power and control over the other person.

Domestic violence knows no boundaries. People of all ages, genders, cultures, religions, professions, and income levels experience domestic violence.

Types of abuse:

Psychological or emotional abuse can be verbal or nonverbal. Emotional abuse may include verbal abuse such as yelling, name calling, blaming, and gaslighting. Nonverbal abuse may include behaviors and tactics such as isolation, intimidation, and coercion. Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse.

Physical abuse occurs when one person uses physical force or the threat of physical force to intimidate, injure, or endanger another person. There is a wide range of behaviors that fall into the category of physical abuse, including pushing, hitting, kicking, grabbing, choking, throwing things, driving recklessly, abandonment, and assault with a weapon.

Sexual abuse exists in any situation in which one partner is forced to participate in unwanted, unsafe, or degrading sexual activity. Forcible sex, even by a spouse or intimate partner, is an act of aggression and violence.

Reproductive coercion occurs when one partner strips another of their ability to control their reproductive health. It includes sabotaging birth control, threatening or pressuring someone to get pregnant or have an abortion, and removing a condom during sex without consent.

Technological-assisted abuse is when a current or former partner uses technology, ranging from cellphones and computers to thermostats and cars, to track, humiliate, or harass.

Economic abuse occurs when one partner controls another’s ability to be financially independent. This includes limiting their ability to work or go to school, controlling access to bank accounts or paychecks, and not allowing their partner’s name on a lease, mortgage, or car title.

If you or someone you know is an abusive relationship, contact LifeWire’s 24-Hour Helpline at 425-746-1940 for information and support. Our trained staff can help with crisis intervention, safety planning, emotional support, and information about your options.